My photo does not give the best angle for either the head or wings but this thing has 4 wings and my understanding is that flies have 2 wings. I may try and get a better shot of the head and the wings and post them.
I took a better example to the State Meeting in China Grove and Dr. Ambrose said it was a sepsis wasp that did not have a common name. It is a solditary wasp and does not pose any significant danger to the honey bees.